Refrain from using social media to settle issues, Bishop urges couples
Most Reverend Goffrey Onah, Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Nsukka, has urged young couples to refrain from using social media to settle marital issues as it escalate the problems.
Onah gave the admonition in a homily he delivered on Tuesday at the 80th Birthday Thanksgiving Mass of Igwe Lawrence Agubuzu, Chairman of Enugu State Traditional Rulers’ Council and his 50th Wedding Anniversary with Queen Patricia.
The mass was held at Onuigba Palace in Ezema Olo ancient Kingdom within Ezeagu Local Government Area of Enugu State.
The bishop, who themed his homily as “Link between Wisdom, Faith, Gratitude and Salvation”, said that it is wrong that the show industry is teaching young people that parting ways and divorce remain things acceptable in the society.
According to him, it is negative and unacceptable that the show industry is portraying “divorce” and answering “ex” as something good and cherished in the society. This is false.
“Most recent couples are quick to use social media, especially Face-book and WhatsApp, to easily share their challenges in their marital homes and families, which is wrong.
“Two people living together at times have issues and it is better solved by the two people involved in terms of marriage – husband and wife – and not involving multiply third parties via the social media space.
“I charge older couples to direct young couples aright and see that they tolerate and persevere in their marriages to preserve the marriage institution as instituted by the Lord Almighty,” he said.
Onah, however, called on youths to desist from the temptation of returning to idol worship in Igbo land, adding that it was imperative that youths recognised the place of God in all they do and become.
The bishop also urged those in authority in the South-East to redouble their efforts in tackling the spate of insecurity in the entire Igbo-land and the country in general.